IAN & JAN
Praying effectively isn't simply begging God for things. It's saying to Him what He has already said in His Word. It's praising and worshipping, and actually kissing the face of God. Prayer isn't something to confine to a particular time of the day; it's communing with Him in everything we do, all the time.
And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints (Ephesians 6:18 NIV).